Saturday, January 26, 2008

The Accident

Baby and I are Ok and in good health as far as the doctors can tell.

This is what happened:
Thursday night I was driving home from work and surprisingly not on my cell phone or going back and forth bewteen country radio stations, or speeding-despite that I had forgotten to use the lady's room before leaving work. This Thursday night was different-the weather wasn't great, the roads were a little icy but it was hard to see where with the light dusting of snow that had fallen earlier. Already 15 under the speed limit with cars passing me by, I decided I was going to slow down a little bit more just to be on the safe side. At the same time I had gently stepped on the breaks, my car hit a patch of black ice, slamming me and my car into the cement center divide and ricocheting my car back into all three lanes of traffic spinning out of control. My car came to a stop finally facing backwards in the middle lane of on-coming traffic.
I was VERY "lucky". I say lucky, but I really know that the Lord had protected me and my baby from what could have been a devestating ending. Not only had my life and the life of my unborn son been spared, but the accident that had occured seconds before mine-that was now behind me-in all the spinning my car had done-had NOT hit them or the people standing around at the scene. I'm telling you- it is IMPOSSIBLE that my car couldn't have hit the people or the other two cars in an accident in the middle of those same three lanes I had just spun through. Only the Lord can make possible what is so seemingly unpossible to us. The police, paramedics, and fire trucks on the seen couldn't understand how my accident and the other accident weren't related. They first thought the accident behind me was from trying to avoid hitting me. The people involved with the other accident didn't even know what had happened to me or I got there on the freeway because they hadn't seen my car spinning.
My air bag hadn't deployed (thank goodness), and I didn't have any whiplash, I didn't hit my head on the window or steering wheel, and my seat belt was low enough that I didn't have pain or bruising from pulling against it. I declined going in the ambulance, and Dave came and drove me to the hospital where the Doctors monitored junior to make sure that with the inertia of the crash that the placenta had not detatched from the uterus. We monitored the baby's heartbeat for 5 hours, and it was strong, and all the while he kept tossing and turning inside me.

The Lord's hand is always available to us. His miracles are never ceasing. Some people don't think miracles occur anymore, and while I've personally seen and experienced them in my life, I'm always humbled again and again by the Lord's great power and mercy. The officers are on the scene told me I was really lucky, I told them I was blessed.

11 comments:

Krauseof3 said...

You are so blessed! I am so thankful that you and the baby are OK. That sounds so scary! Thank the Lord he had his hand on you and Junior!!! Love you girl.

S said...

Sheryl! That sounds horrific in it's own right, least of all with you being totally pregnant. I totally appreciate miracles, I'm so glad you're okay! That's how I feel when things like that happen to me (not anything ever that dramatic or scary) but like at my baby's birth, why did I get so blessed and others don't who were in the same situation as me? I'm so glad you guys are okay. Life just gets a lot riskier after you get pregnant and then when they come out! Good job being tough, baby davyl (get it? a mix of Sheryl and Dave, just don't reject it right now, think about it a little bit longer, you are in Utah after all).

Emily and Aaron Carter said...

Wow! That is so scary and I'm so glad you are ok. The car is totaled I'm assuming. Your description brought small flash backs of my car accident when I hit the center divide. You and the baby are so blessed!

Mel said...

You are such a trooper. I think I've said that many times since you've been pregnant and I mean it. When I talked to you earlier today about this I couldn't stop thinking of all the trials you've gone through with this pregnancy...and then this accident! But it seems the Lord let these things happen to you because He knew you'd learn from them and become a better person for it. I can't wait to meet this little guy who has such a great mommy.

Krauseof3 said...

You know what I was remembering today...airbags, sunglasses, and boy's houses...oh, and invitations to stay for BBQ's...!!! Do you remember the night you dared me to get out of the car, go tap on the window...and I did, and as I was running back, the headlights started pulling up to the house! I almost died...but we triumphed and never got caught! :)

mamasuisse said...

One more very good reason to hate the cold and snow! I'm so glad you two are okay.

Emily and Aaron Carter said...

Where are the pictures of you!?!?
PS With Survivor starting tonight I thought of you and how you gave us the inside scoop ages ago from Palau.

Janene said...

Scary. The feeling of spinning around in a car that is going really fast that you have no control of is really scary. I am so glad you are ok and that the airbag did not deploy. The last time I remember you deploying an airbag your face was a little burned. That was a scary night too. Take the side streets and drive slow. Love ya, Janene

Emily and Aaron Carter said...

Sheryl, I am absolutely dying to see pictures of you pregnant! Why are you keeping us, who won't get to see you pregnant in real life, in suspense? PLEASE POST PICS! Aren't you due in less than a month?
Also, Survivor is good so far. I don't know whether or not you would recognize the islands. It pretty much looks like every other survivor on an island. It is gorgeous though.

Krauseof3 said...

I am with Emily...post some pictures!! Have you had any pre-term labor signs? That little man is going to be here in no time at all!!

S said...

Sheryl...the next Katie Holmes Cruise? I'm thinking we're going to have a Suri experience with this little man. As in, was it all a hoax? Is there really a Dave Babcock Jr in utero? We never saw pictures of Sheryl pregnant, could she have been lying all along?